First Responders interact, see and experience the worst of humanity, and to do so and still live a somewhat normal life outside the circle of fire, EMS, and police is a challenge at times. In my case, my wife wants to hear about my day and the calls that happened; she does not, however, want to know any of the details – none! So, I’m guilty of shutting off all emotions because I’ve walked in the door angry at yet another overdose where the victim’s child is calling their estranged father from the living room telling him how “mom has done it again” …or upset that my crew just worked exhaustively hard to save a life from an MVA, only to fail. This list can go on. However, my wife hasn’t earned the bad emotions that I’m still dealing with, so I’m not going to share them with her – so, it gets bottled up and I become robotic until I can function as a human being and her husband again (that’s my perspective). Unfortunately over time that on-off switch becomes harder to find, or you simply don’t want to turn your emotions back on again in fear of reliving the cause of the ill-feelings to begin with.
This illustration is intended to get a conversation started – for you, for your crew, for your family… for me and my wife. I don’t have any answers, and I certainly have not figured out how to turn off my emotional detachment switch when my wife needs for me to be in the now. I think the important thing is that I recognize that she needs me to be emotionally engaged in our marriage, and that I must find ways to separate home-life and fire-life. And after 25 years of marriage, she’s more than earned the right to demand this, though she doesn’t.
Like all-things relationship, this will be difficult, but worth fighting for. I’m trying – I will fail more than once – but I’m trying.
STAY FIRED UP, and keeping fighting for what’s important.
I’m feeling oddly nostalgic for Tampa this morning. We moved there in the 2004 after hurricanes Charley, Frances, Ivan and Jeanne had already wreaked havoc across the state. I interviewed for the Tampa Tribune editorial cartoonist gig between hurricanes Charley and Francis and remember walking around debris on my way to the office. Below is my very first cartoon published in the Trib – miss drawing local cartoons!
Never forget, and keep those still suffering with the scars of that day in your thoughts and prayers.
DRAWN BY FIRE flashback: Never miss and opportunity to train.
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GUARDIAN OF THE WILD
I am excited to introduce my new print, Guardian of the Wild. Inspired by childhood memories of Smokey calling upon all of us to prevent forest fires, and my love of nature and the tranquility it offers to all of us who choose to protect it. Guardian of the Wild is my vision of a native woodland fire fighter – ever vigilant and prepared to protect the natural home of all creatures large and small.
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